An Introvert Approach
Life gives us diversified opportunities in disguised
formats. Knowing them and being able to acknowledge it, lies in the individual’s
hands. The term “Marinating” gives room to a squally of notions. The way we
take it to be, decides our character. When hardships accompany us for a
stipulated period, and when the mind plays a “Do-What-Next?” game, it often
leaves the individual to indulge himself in deep negative, obnoxious thoughts,
where-in he gets too worked up or soaked into thought process of the happenings
and not on the step ahead. This is the dark side of the word “marinating”. The
grassy side (the road often not taken) is the way by which a person thinks
himself through the situation, and works out solutions to solve the hardships
that come his way.
The choice is left with you!
This article might be a true-learn for the former and a
pride-adjudging tool for the latter sect of people explained above.
Marinating in one’s mediocrity is often a phrasal term, used
to explain the situation of a below average individual who daunts his past and
regrets making decisions which could have been done the other way. They are
nothing more than “Trying to crack a nut, with a feather”. A decision once made
is not worthy to change. But, instead how to derive success from that decision,
must be thoughtful orientation. Getting depressed over, the mis-happening of
life, and falling a prey to the evil thought process that leads us to think of “How
it happened?” “What if I had taken the other choice?” “What is the world going
to think about me?” are all typical signs of mediocre attributes, and further research
on attempting to find the answer to these questions is marinating over your
mediocrity.
Ok, So how am I to tackle such situations?
Simple, Just ask 3 questions to yourself when situations
that u abhorred or never expected-to-happen has taken place. They are:
“Ok, Now what next? “
“What’s the backup to my next option?”
“What are my chances to succeed in my next venture?”
These when asked, triggers the inner mind response system to
think on similar lines and rub away the past thoughts. Thinking about how it
happened is advisable to a threshold level. Only so that, the same mistake
shall not be done in the near/far future.
A very confusing theory, yet provides an implicate
practical solution.
Getting marinated over a productive thought prolonging is
the only road to be taken, and not a world of solitude on other’s perceptions derive
benefit of gossip from yours!
With this said, “Fail not to think about the future, and Marinate
on your exceptionals and not your mediocrity! Fare well in all *thye* endeavors!
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